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Bald guy fetish? Yes! There are women who love bald guys!
If you’ve ever had any doubt on whether or not women find bald men attractive, you’ll be glad to know that there are women who actually have a bald guy fetish!
One of the most anxiety riddled feelings men have before they finally pull the trigger and shave their heads bald is, “will women find me attractive?” The honest answer is that some women won’t find you attractive, but some women actually have a bald guy fetish! The real challenge for men is to accept the fact that all women will not find you that attractive and to put yourself in front of the women who do have that “Bald Guy Fetish”. Let’s look into what you need to do to accomplish both!
What is the “bald guy fetish”?
From Oxford Languages Dictionary: fetish /ˈfɛtɪʃ/ noun
“A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.”
“a man with a fetish for surgical masks“
A bald guy fetish is when certain people, women or men for that matter, have a particular attraction to bald guys or men who shave their heads.
The thing about a bald guy fetish is that it’s not something that is clearly obvious. Unless someone outright says they have a bald guy fetish, you may not even know it.
That is of course, unless you know their previous romantic history. In fact, you can sometimes tell by a person’s dating history about whether or not they have a bald guy fetish or at least don’t mind dating and being romantically involved with bald guys.
The only true way to tell if a woman has a bald guy fetish is to actually shave your head. It’s one of those things you’ll never notice until you are actually part of, or in the situation.
For example, if you’re a guy who’s bald, many women aren’t going to be attracted to you, not because you’re bald, but because of your insecurity. It shows on your face without you even realizing it.
Many bald men are insecure whether they admit it or not.
So whether a woman prefers a man with a thick head of hair or has a bald guy fetish doesn’t matter, because most women are not attracted to men who lack confidence.
So the only way to really know if women have a bald guy fetish or which ones have the bald guy fetish is to just shave your head. In fact, it was one of the most pleasant surprises I had when shaving my head.
When I first shaved my head I couldn’t believe the amount of second looks I started getting. When you get second looks about something that you recently did that’s pretty major like shaving your head. It does help boost your confidence levels to say the least.
So boosted confidence levels along with attracting women who have a bald guy fetish is quite an experience.
Finding women who have a bald guy fetish you simply have to take the plunge and shave your head.
That’s the only true way to really know which women out there have a bald guy fetish and which do not.
Why won’t some women find me attractive if I shave my head?
The reason why someone won’t find you attractive if you shave your head it’s the same reason why someone doesn’t find blonde hair guys attractive or fair skin guys attractive or dark skin guys attractive etc.
We all have our own, for lack of a better word, fetishes or qualities that attract us to one person or another. Some actually prefer guys who shave their heads or bald guys to guys with thick heads of hair as well.
The lesson here is you can’t be attractive to everyone, even Brad Pitt. But with the right confidence and look, you can be attractive to more women than you will ever want.
Is there a happy middle between women who have a bald guy fetish and those who don’t?”
The good news is yes. As a matter of fact, most women will fall into this category. Again, you just simply need to go back into a woman’s dating history. Are there any baldies in her past?
What I hope you realize after reading this post is that the majority of women don’t really care. Most are quite open to dating a guy.
So you will either find women that have a true bald guy fetish or women who will absolutely never even consider dating a bald guy. Again the majority of women fall in the middle.
They neither have a bald guy fetish nor are against dating and being romantically involved with bald guys.
So as you can see guys your dating pool of potential mates is quite large when you think about it.
However, I think most of us are so insecure about our hairlines and how thick our hair is, that we seem to lose sight of that fact.
We seem to only focus on women who aren’t attracted to bald guys. Actually, I think this is more psychological.
I mean who is a greater catch? A person who is really hard to get? Or a person who is easy to get?
That’s why we tend to only focus on the rejections and not the wins.
So where does that leave you, the newly shaved bald guy?
The answers are quite simple and if you’re in sales, you already have knowledge of this “numbers” concept. You simply don’t think twice about it if she’s not interested and just move on.
Who wants to chase a girl who doesn’t want to be caught? Right?
I know it’s difficult. After all, men are very visual creatures. We see that unattainable beauty and we can’t help but to be drawn like Ulysses and the Sirens. It’s the history of man really. Your approach, unlike Ulysses, is to be smart enough not to direct off into the rocks to the beauty of the Sirens.
The Sirens in this case are the women who will never ever go out with you. Not only because you’re bald or you shave your head, but it could be 1,000 other reasons.
That’s the thing, you never know why a woman may be rejecting you. It could be because she just doesn’t like your facial expression.
Maybe you’re too short or too tall. Maybe she just doesn’t like bald guys.
But all that’s okay. The trick to avoiding these women who do not like bald guys is clear. Whenever you see them, don’t even give them a second look.
In fact, you’ll soon find out that women who you may presume do not like bald guys actually do because you will be ignoring quite a lot of the “hard to catch” looking women. And what do women want most of all? Attention.
When you don’t give women that attention for whatever reason, it stirs something inside them, regardless of whether you’re bald or have a thick head of hair.
What do I need to do to find those women who have that “Bald Guy Fetish”?
Ah that’s the million-dollar question. Wouldn’t it be great if I said, “Bald guys have this 6th type sense and can only zero in on the women that have bald guy fetishes?”
That would truly be amazing.
Unfortunately, there are no bald guy fetish detectors.
So where does that leave us?
Not as bad off as you may think. In fact, you won’t have to do anything, even if you could. Why? Because women with a bald guy fetish will come seek you out.
Most will not be so blatantly obvious and say, “hey, I just love bald guys, so let’s hook up.”
Women show their attraction for men in many different and mostly subtle ways.
- It could be a glance that lingers for a fraction of a second too long in your direction.
- It could be the tussle and playing of hair whenever they’re around you.
- It could be the way she crosses her legs towards you and not away from you. It could be her initiating a conversation.
- It could be 100 different ways.
But one way or another she will make herself known to you that she is available. The only question is, “how quick will you be able to pick up these subtle signs of female attraction?”
How can I become a bald handsome man and be attractive to the most number of women?
Many ways. In fact, I have quite a few posts on this very matter. I’ll just run down the most obvious which are good starting points. Actually, most of you will not need to do much more than these.
The ways in which a bald handsome man could be attractive to the most number of women are simple, but not easy.
First off is getting in shape. This is obvious. If you’re a man, you should have a consistent fitness routine. In fact, your fitness routine should be as comprehensive as your bald head maintenance grooming routine.
Fitness includes not only working out and building muscle, but getting your diet under control and in check.
Eating healthy, plenty of fruits and vegetables as well as good sources of protein and high-quality fats. Controlling the calories as well.
Having a bald head maintenance and overall grooming routine as well. Nails should be trimmed and cut, but most of all, clean. Now this includes the nails on your toes as well.
We should be clean and smell good. That also means your breath as well.
Just the basics of a male grooming routine on top of keeping your head shaved or at least buzzed at a consistent length is plenty.
Don’t forget to not scrimp on the grooming products as well. Women notice the little things much more than we guys do.
The last basic is of course, dressing well. When I mean dressing well, I don’t mean having to wear a suit and tie every day, especially if it’s not called for.
But making sure your clothes are made with only the highest quality materials like high quality cotton, 100% wool like merino and cashmere. Your shoes should be made from leather or suede.
Everything should fit properly and be age appropriate, yet stylish with a little bit of flare. Just don’t go overboard on the trends.
All you have to do is just look at some of your favorite bald icons for inspiration. You don’t have to copy them piece by piece.
In fact, it’s probably better that you take a little bit from each and make it your own. Just be consistent with everything, that’s the key, consistency in everything you do.
There you have it. The bald guy fetish and how to make it work for you. So go out there and get some.